About David DiBella

Founder of Mindful Defense™, an effective system of self-defense for all skill levels regardless of age, gender or physical ability. David is a full-time martial arts and self-defense instructor at his studio, Overland Park Karate, in Overland Park, KS.

What To Do If You Witness An Altercation

The news is full of cell phone videos of altercations, often extremely violent, taken by bystanders. What should you do if you witness an altercation? Unless a innocent person is in serious danger and you are capable of taking a calculated risk to help, your best option is more than likely to leave the area and call 911. Hanging around an altercation exposes you to a lot of risk, risk that could cost you your life. I will share two experiences to illustrate why hanging around trouble is never a good idea.

By |2018-08-30T20:17:35+00:00August 30th, 2018|Self-Defense|0 Comments

The Mollie Tibbetts Tragedy: Were Attack Indicators Present?

The nation has been riveted by the disappearance of Mollie Tibbetts, a college student from Iowa who mysteriously disappeared while jogging in a small, rural community. Cristhian Bahena Rivera, age 24, has been arrested on first-degree murder charges in connection with the case. Although it's very early to determine what exactly happened, information is starting to trickle in via media reports. Were attack indicators present that could have been processed and acted upon to alter the outcome of this tragedy? Most likely, yes.

By |2018-08-23T16:39:47+00:00August 22nd, 2018|Self-Defense|1 Comment

You Are The First Responder: Accept Responsibility For Your Self-Defense

Recent events, in particular active killers murdering school children, have once again started the discussion of "how others can protect us." We cannot control the action of others or depend on anyone to be there for us and our loved ones when we need them most.

By |2018-03-01T08:39:22+00:00March 1st, 2018|Self-Defense|0 Comments

5 Things That Make You An Easy Target

When bad people decide to do bad things to good people, they interview them first. This is an interview you want to make sure you fail. Criminals are opportunistic. They adapt and act on a moment's notice when an easy target presents itself. Criminals will "interview," or run potential victims through a checklist to determine if they are easy prey. Here are some common things an aggressor will look for when deciding to take action.

By |2017-04-24T10:04:35+00:00April 24th, 2017|Self-Defense|0 Comments

Off-Body Carrying of a Firearm: Don’t Do It

Off-body carrying of a firearm is simply carrying your weapon in a manner that it is not attached to your body in a fixed, stable location. Off-body carry includes things like purses and stowing a gun under the seat of your car. Off-body carry has many drawbacks, many of which will render your firearm inaccessible in the dynamics of a lethal force confrontation. For the average citizen, off-body carry should be a last resort.

By |2017-04-09T15:30:46+00:00April 9th, 2017|Lethal Force/Firearms, Self-Defense|0 Comments

Calling For Help: Alerting Others You Are In Trouble

Calling for help seems like it would be one of the most basic, natural things one could do. You scream bloody murder and the cavalry comes running to your rescue, right? The truth of the matter is, there's a good chance no one will hear you, and if they do, they won't help you. Most people will not want to intervene in a violent situation, or may simply assume someone else will help.

By |2018-03-05T20:52:37+00:00April 4th, 2017|Self-Defense|2 Comments

Time Lag Posting: Keep it Safe on Social Media

Most people would never dream of going up to robbers, thieves and violent criminals and letting them know where they are going to be and when. No one would let a robber know when no one will be home. However, this is exactly what happens when pictures are posted to social media portraying the location and persons involved in events as they are happening. It is human nature to want to share memorable times with others, but it doesn't have to put you and your family at risk.

By |2017-03-28T08:18:29+00:00March 28th, 2017|Cyber Safety|0 Comments